• A doula does not replace the partner; they each have a separate role.

• A doula can provide the information to help the couple make appropriate decisions and facilitate communication between them and the medical care providers.

• The father can share in the birth at a level he feels most comfortable with; the doula’s skills and knowledge can help him to feel more relaxed, and participate to his desired level.

• A doula is able to help the partner to enjoy the moment by taking some of the pressure off of him to become the “birthing expert.” The doula helps to set the environment at a peaceful state by encouragement and reminders of the birthing plan set forth by the expecting couple.